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18 Christmas Gift Ideas That Support a Cause

02/12/2020 by Marie

Christmas gift ideas

Christmas Gift Ideas That Support a Cause

In our age of abundance, it can be hard sometimes to come up with Christmas gift ideas for loved ones. Many of us have all that we need in our houses, and gifts that are funny or cute in the moment, often end up relegated to the garage or donate pile not long afterward.

But, with a rise in stakeholder capitalism and socially conscious companies, there are many companies which not only make amazing products, they are also working to save the environment and better the world through social activism. Whether your money goes to employing fair trade artisans or donating to charity, giving a gift that supports a cause means you get the double feel-good vibes of investing in the well-being of those less fortunate. In the end, isn’t this what the holiday spirit is about?

Not only that, but studies have also shown that giving gifts, caring for others and performing acts of kindness can all provide boosts to your mood and happiness levels. A study called, “Do unto others or treat yourself?” showed an increase in the levels of psychological flourishing after performing acts of kindness, including social well-being and emotional well-being of the participants. It showed, when we are kind to one another, we actually achieve a higher level of positive emotions compared to being kind to ourselves.

So, what are you waiting for? Take a look at our list of 18 Christmas gift ideas that support a cause – helping you bring joy to your friends and family, while helping you feel good too. Read on!

Supporting Women Entrepreneurs

The following women-owned businesses are all committed to achieving a better and more sustainable future for all.

  1. SheEO is a global community of radically generous women who support women-owned businesses that are committed to solving the world’s to-do list (otherwise known as the United Nations Sustainable Development Goals). Check out the SheEO 2020 Holiday Gift Guide to support women-led and women-owned Ventures that are working on the World’s To-Do List when purchasing gifts for friends.
  2. BeauTex Designs is a collection of sustainable work wear and eco-friendly shoes designed to be as reliable and hard working as you. Their gender neutral, eco vegan shoes are made from recycled plastic water bottles diverted from oceans and landfill and the soles are made from a combination of recycled rubber. 
  3. Code Like A Girl is a social enterprise providing girls and women with the confidence, tools, knowledge and support to enter, and flourish, in the world of coding! Why not buy someone you know (kids or adults) a course to get them started!
  4. Grow Your Mind wants to see children, families and teachers with the same awareness of looking after their mental health as they do for their physical health. They exist to make topics such as brain awareness, resilience, mindfulness and compassion relatable for all. Check out their shop for resilience kits, journals and more.
  5. Pure Peony cremes, soap and shampoo naturally heals irritated inflamed skin using scientifically proven peony root extract from our organic farm.
  6. The World’s Biggest Garage Sale aims to activate dormant goods for good as a way to make purposeful profit that creates a positive impact on people and the planet.

Environmentally Conscious Gifts

The following companies and products are all environmentally friendly and sustainable. Here are some Christmas gift ideas that also protects our planet this Christmas?

Zero Waste 26 Piece Kitchen Starter Kit: Includes a reusable mesh produce bags, reusable silicone stretch lids, reusable stainless steel straws with cleaning brush.

Ocean Clear’s 5 Pack assorted sizes (AU$16.99), Reusable Organic Eco-friendly Beeswax Food Wraps | Biodegradable, Sustainable, Food Storage Covers.

Brooke & Wallace Beauty and Skincare. reusable and sustainable materials, made with bamboo Kit with Headband, reusable Makeup Remover Pads, Luxury Premium Face Wipes.

Wheat Straw Nordic Dinnerware Plates (AU$20.65)- Microwave Dishwasher Safe & Reusable, Lightweight & Recycled Outdoor Picnic Eating – Eco-Friendly BPA Free, 4 pack.

Patagonia is a long-time leader and diligent supporter of grassroots environmentalism, with more than $20m donated to environmental organisations.

Socially Conscious Gift Ideas

Whether you’re contributing to ending slavery or helping people less fortunate than you, the following companies and products are all committed to making the world a better place.

  1. The Tote project creates fair trade, organic tote bags sewn by human trafficking survivors. Each bag supports survivors in the US as they pursue their dreams.
  2. Warby Parker realised that 15% of the world’s population lack access to glasses, making it difficult for those individuals to navigate the world clearly. Every time you buy a pair of glasses, a pair is distributed to someone in need.
  3. Did you know socks are the most requested clothing item in homeless shelters? Bombas knows this, and it’s why they’ve donated more than 10million pair of socks. All you need to do is buy one pair of socks to have one pair donated.
  4. One of the original B Corp companies, Toms has been using sustainable materials, being transparent about their supply chain, and donating profits to help partners create positive change for people to feel physically safe, mentally healthy, and have equal access to opportunity. They recently surpassed the $2 million mark for donations.

Secret Santa Gift Ideas and Gag Gifts

Are you looking for Christmas gift ideas to make people laugh? Need something for the office Christmas party? We’ve got you covered there too…

  1. Given the mad rush to stockpile toilet paper this year, and the fact that EVERYONE uses it, why not gift wrap some socially conscious toilet paper from Who Gives a Crap? Who Gives A Crap was started after the founders learnt that 2.4 billion people don’t have access to a toilet meaning that around 289,000 children under five die every year from diarrhea diseases caused by poor water and sanitation. They donate 50% of profits to help build toilets and improve sanitation in the developing world.
  2. Do you know someone who loves The Crown? Or perhaps they’re a bit full of themselves? Either way, this next company has you covered… Established Titles is a Scottish company that is using the Scottish land ownership laws to sell plots of land. The money contributes to the preservation and protection of woodland areas in Scotland, and the owner of the land is granted the title of Lord or Lady. Yes, this is fully legit. You can buy a small piece of Scottish land, and come away with a title for you or a loved one, while at the same time preserving the beautiful Sottish woodlands. Not only that, but they plan a tree for every order.

Giving Back to People in Need

We can all agree 2020 has been a tough year and for some, this means that Christmas will be even tougher. If you’re at the point where your loved one really doesn’t need anything more in their house, why not consider making a donation on their behalf – that way 100 percent of your gift will help someone in need.

The Salvation Army makes it easy for you to make a direct difference in someone’s life this Christmas. From buying someone a Christmas lunch, or a warm cup of soup, to a Santa stocking for kids or a phone call to an elderly person who is alone, there are so many ways to give back to people in need. Explore the heartwarming range of ideas to relieve suffering in our community from only $5.

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Filed Under: Finding Happiness & Resiliency Tagged With: charity, Christmas, gift, good cause, happiness, resilience

Wait! Here’s Why You Should Keep Giving This Holiday Season

29/12/2019 by Marie

Another Christmas is over and for many people this means they have a lot more stuff they don’t need or want. But did you know that donating your unwanted Christmas stuff will make you happier and sexier?

With an increased awareness of the impacts of global warming on our planet, it’s no surprise that this year has seen an explosion of zero-waste, DIY and minimalist Christmas gift tips.

Despite being far more conscious of the ecological impact of our Christmas shopping, in Australia $980 million in presents will not be used, and in the UK it is estimated that £2.2 billion worth of presents are unwanted, whereas in the U.S. Americans return nearly $90 billion worth of gifts every year.

So, as you start to pack down your Christmas tree, box those decorations for next year, and vacuum the tinsel from the corners of every room, it’s a great time to also do a clean out of your wardrobe, garage and cupboards to see what you could donate.

Decluttering is good for the soul

As bestselling author and tidying expert Marie Kondo says, if it doesn’t spark joy, let it go.

The Konmari method aims to help people live a life that sparks joy by making room for meaningful objects, people and experiences.

“Tidy your space, transform your life.”

Marie Kondo

In our house, we have a one-in-one-out motto for non-essential items, which means that for any item of clothing, entertainment or decoration that we buy, we have to let go of an old item. It’s amazing how this has changed how I shop. I used to pick up items I liked off a shelf and if I could afford it, I’d buy it. Now, I often find myself picking up an item off a shelf and saying, “It’s nice, but I don’t need it.” …much to the amusement of my husband who always thought that way.

I also don’t find myself at shopping centres as often, and find I am more content with what I have. It’s also far easier to clean my house when there’s less stuff lying around.

So, while you’re already cleaning up and packing down after Christmas, why not take a look at what you received this Christmas, and what you already have, and see what you could let go of.

Giving also makes you sexier

If the above reasons aren’t enough to convince you to donate, then consider that being altruistic makes you sexier to the opposite sex. A 2016 study by the British Journal of Psychology found that participants who were given $100 in potential monetary winnings and who were willing to donate that money, also reported having more lifetime and/or casual sex partners over the previous year. In short, altruists get more sex.

Here are some fabulous charities that could use your ‘gently-used’ donations

  • Dress for Success improves the employability of women in need by providing free professional clothing, a network of support and the career development tools to help women achieve self-sufficiency. Donate your work clothes to give a woman a new start.
  • The Red Cross* provides clothing for victims of natural disasters, and the Red Cross Shops sell new and donated clothes, accessories and homewares to raise funds to help people in need.
  • The Salvation Army* serves 130 countries around the globe. It is an evangelical part of the universal Christian Church which aims to meet human needs in His name without discrimination. Donations help serve the most vulnerable members of your community.
  • Ronald McDonald House* was an absolute saviour for my family, allowing my mother to stay for free within minutes of the hospital at which my 12-year-old sister was being given the treatment she needed to save her life. These homes away from home serve all types of families, so your donated games, toys and household items could go a long way to bringing some joy to these families during a tough time. Make sure you call ahead before dropping off goods.

*Australian links provided, but you can Google these charities in most countries around the world.

Leave a comment below if you know of other worthy charities!


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Filed Under: Finding Happiness & Resiliency Tagged With: Christmas, declutter, donate, gift, giving, happiness, inspiration, present, waste, zero-waste

5 Easy Projects to Rediscover Your Christmas Spirit

18/12/2019 by Marie

Life’s busy, and it gets even more busy toward the end of the year. As the calendar switches to December, the demands on our time seem to double overnight. From the catch-ups with old colleagues and office Christmas parties, to trying to get something personal and meaningful (and appropriately priced) for everyone on your list, to trying to tie up everything at work while planning travel arrangements for the family, while juggling the usual life to-do list. Quite simply, it can all just be a bit much, and what should be a happy time of year with friends and family can turn into a burden to ‘get through’ as quickly as possible so life can return to normal.

It’s a shame though. Consumerism aside, there are so many good things about the Christmas holidays, regardless of your faith. It teaches gratefulness and giving, and it strengthens social connection, which are all scientifically proven to increase your happiness and mental wellbeing.

Christmas is also the perfect time to dust off those craft supplies, or buy some new ones, and immerse yourself in an activity for a few hours while creating something for others.

The good news is that it doesn’t take much to re-centre yourself and start feeling those Christmas happy vibes. In positive psychology, the state of flow, coined by Mihály Csíkszentmihályi in 1975, is when a person is fully immersed in performing an activity that gives them a feeling of energized focus, full involvement and enjoyment in the process of the activity.

So, find your flow! Here are five easy and cheap homemade gift ideas to help you find your Christmas mojo and rediscover your appreciation of the festive season.

Self-Care Box

gift basket

If you have friends who are going through a tough time, or who might have to spend Christmas alone, what better way to show you care than making them a self-care box. Charleigh at Charleighwrites recently posted a few ideas you could try.

Mason Jars Succulent Box

Why not build a box filled with a selection of budding plants. This versatile gift will brighten up someone special’s place or it’s also a relatively safe gift for someone you don’t know well. LifeStorageBlog has a great tutorial for making these, and it’s a great way to reuse old glass jars.

Flavoured Vodka

Throughout the year, keep all your empty glass bottles and jars so you can make some flavoured vodka gifts bottles. These are great as economical thank you gifts during the festive season for all those parties you’ll be going to! Make sure you also create your own bespoke label for your new vodka inventions, so people know what’s in there. Check out this GoodFood article for tips.

Scented Candles

Candles are another easy and cheap project you can tackle to create a personalised present for someone these holidays. Just pop into your local craft or hobby store or go online to buy the ingredients and supplies. All you need is a few leftover crayons from the kids to colour the wax, or about 10 to 15 drops of essential oil per pound of solid wax for fragrance. Watch this great video from Jami Ray Vintage with some insider tips to help first-timers.

Christmas Cookies

Nothing says homemade Christmas present like a plate of Christmas cookies. This is a great activity that you can also do with family and the kids, with everyone getting to express their creative side while decorating the cookies. Check out I Am Baker’s list of the 40 best Christmas Cookies for inspiration.

Do you have other ideas for activities to get into the Christmas spirit? Let us know below!

Filed Under: Finding Happiness & Resiliency Tagged With: Christmas, DIY, gift ideas, gifts, happiness, homemade, inspiration, mindfulness, presents

5 Ways to Teach Kids Resiliency and Happiness

12/12/2019 by Marie

Change is here to stay. In fact, the rate of change is only going to get exponentially faster, leaving the unprepared feeling burnt out and frazzled. We’re living in a Change Storm. That’s why it’s so important to teach our next generation about how to cope with the ever-evolving world we live in.

Think about it. We teach kids to read and write, we teach math, science and history, but nobody teaches kids how to deal with the complicated business of existence itself. Who is teaching kids the social and emotional skills needed to navigate life in a mentally and physically healthy way?

Sorry, I don’t have the answer for you, but I do have 5 great products that can help your kids develop the mental and emotional skills needed to become resilient, emotionally mature and happy adults.

Big Life Journal

The Big Life Journal

The Big Life Journal is a kids’ workbook that is designed to help kids develop a growth and resilient mindset so they can face life’s challenges with confidence. The activities in the book encourage better self-esteem and resilience, while infusing a love a learning and an openness to taking on new challenges. Find this on Amazon.

Awesome Ends In Me gratitude journal

Awesome ends in ME is a guided gratitude journal which teaches kids how to get the most out of practicing gratitude. The book also includes activities so kids aged 5-12 can learn to manage emotions, create a growth mindset, focus on their strengths, create meaningful connections, and maintain healthy habits to live a happy life. Available on Amazon or check out the AwesoME Inc website for some great adult products too.

Superhero Strengths: Card Game

This is a fun game for kids and teens aged 6-14, teaching skills in strength, coping, feelings, resilience and relationships. Kids play the role of superhero collectors while learning to identify their strengths, deal with feelings, build coping skills, and improve resilience. Available on Amazon.

The Tower of Self Esteem

This game helps kids learn to choose positivity and while boosting self-confidence and social skills with creativity, problem solving and teamwork. Kids work with family and friends to build a joint tower in additional to a personal tower using cards that instil positive thinking. For ages 6 and up, available on Amazon.

No Waries Social Emotional Game

This fast-paced game for kids and adults ages 5+ is based on the classic game called War. It helps kids learn new feeling and emotion words, gaining an understanding of a variety of emotions so they can acquire and apply social emotional skills. Visit Amazon to puchase.

UPDATE: New product!

Snakes and Ladders: Climb to Emotional Maturity

Since posting this article, I have also come across a great game by The School of Life which teaches kids about emotional life. They’ve reworked the old Snakes and Ladders game: the ladders represent all those moments when you learn how to be more of a grown-up, the snakes the times when you end up acting, against your better nature, like a tantrum-prone toddler. Visit The School of Life’s website to order the game.


Comment below! Do you have other recommendations for great products that can help children develop the skills to be happy and resilient adults? Tell us below in the comments.

Filed Under: Finding Happiness & Resiliency Tagged With: Christmas, gifts, happiness, inspiration, Kids, present, resilience, resiliency, strength

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